Wired for Love


Wired for Relationship Retreats

The PACT Institute holds several workshops every year for people looking to incorporate the PACT principles of security, trust, and mutual respect into their relationships. These workshops, which draw from neuroscience and attachment theory models, are designed to help couples and individuals seeking secure-functioning relationships. These retreats are for everyone interested in relationship success and long-term happiness.

Our Wired for Relationship Retreats are open to couples and individuals seeking secure-functioning relationships, whereas our Wired for Love Couple Retreats are intended for partners to come together to explore new ways to strengthen relationships. 

Wired for Love Couple Retreat


Beach couple

The PACT Institute’s Couple Retreats lead couples though exercises designed to help them identify one another’s attachments styles, read body language and arousal states, and manage conflicts to build secure-functioning relationships.

Wired for Relationship Retreat

Stan and Tracey

The PACT Institute’s co-founders, Dr.Stan Tatkin and Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, welcome couples and singles alike to participate in this retreat. The program will guide you through exercises to help you find secure-functioning relationships that are truly mutual and collaborative. Through techniques designed to create secure and high-functioning relationships you will learn to:

  • See through the fog of infatuation
  • Understand the biological underpinnings of relationship connection
  • Screen partners for a good match
  • Recognize your own and your partner’s relationship styles
  • Read your partner’s nonverbal behavior
  • Move toward secure functioning with your partner
  • Play well and fight well together
  • Form mutually satisfying and lasting agreements based on fairness, justice, and sensitivity

Hands-on activities will help pairs and individuals learn about how to find safety and security in relationships for stronger, more fulfilling connections.

Feedback from the PACT Institute’s Couple Retreats

“Stan is an incredible teacher. In a few hours, he was able to impart a depth of understanding that I figured would take months. He doesn’t teach knowledge, he teaches understanding. Very helpful workshop on becoming a better couple.”

 “We loved it. Learned a lot and enjoyed the great energy and love from the group. Would highly recommend to other couples or clinicians!”

 “This was the best workshop ever. Stan and Tracey are phenomenal teachers. The material was amazing, as was my experience here. Also, it was so helpful to have their assistant to help me and my partner.” 

“Excellent workshop with skilled and caring leaders. Stan is so skilled, and Tracey warm and a great partner. Learned so much.”

 “Amazing! I came with an intention to be open, [to] truly understand and learn about myself and my partner and interplay, and absolutely came away with that. Stan and Tracey created a safe environment that allowed us to be vulnerable, which truly enhanced our learning. Thank you!”

Wired for Love
Couple Retreats
Stockbridge, MA
April 27-29, 2018

Big Sur, CA
May 18-20, 2018

Shambhala Mountain Center
Red Feather Lakes, CO
June 22-24, 2018
Registration opens soon

1440 Multiversity

Scotts Valley, CA
August 17-19, 2018
Registration opens soon

Omega Institute
Rhinebeck, NY
August 10-12, 2018
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Shambhala Mountain Center
Red Feather Lakes, CO
September 14 - 16, 2018
Registration opens soon

Wired for Relationship Retreats
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